It’s only my opinion when I am in a stress relationship with a woman.

They never learn and so full of themselves. They never understand what is hurt means for a man. I appreciates those men who really loves and sacrifice themselves for women but I am not that kind of guy. I go through a battle of logic with woman, but then I am the one who gets the blame of everything, just because I am a man.

The concept of “the strong has to weaken himself for the weak” does not seems logic to me. In my view, they never accept the defeat, they never accept that I was right. Then they cry and want me to change without deep understanding on why I do things they despised of. They never try to understand what I think towards things I don’t like. I don’t like something simply means I don’t like it. Don’t bring over the shits! Don’t talk about the shits! It is how I think, every woman should behave towards these kind of thing.

I think I am quite sensitive regarding the changes of feeling in someone’s life. I remember the days I know exactly when something is wrong with my female friends. I was a melancholic turns choleric. Nowadays, I can preserve my emotion well and I can literally feel sad and cry for someone I lost, but then when I focus my thought on other things, the sadness is gone. It doesn’t mean that I am cold-blooded man, I just think that I am used to suppress my heart when facing rejections and bad things in life.

Someone said I am an angry guy, the fact is I only angry because there is a reason to it. Those reasons can be about things that not supposed to be there blocking my way to get what I need to achieved. Somehow, in these angry states of mind what calm me is … Philosophy!

When I was in college I read many philosophy literature, say Karl Max, Taoism, etc., but then I guess what shapes me today is Pragmatism.

Pragmatism is the notion that meaning or worth is determined by practical consequences. I was a Christian. I tend to look everything happened in life with a view of God behind everything. Now, my view is what happened in my life right now does not matter, what matter is what will happen after i do something about it“. {click to tweet}

I never imagine living with a wife, currently not. It’s not because I don’t want to, I am still looking for “the ultimate she”.

The cause maybe as simple as there are too many divorce and betrayal out there between man and woman. So to say, me and woman has permanent differences that is hard to reconcile. But, seeing how happy a couple in their marriage day, that’s just makes me jealous. I guess, someday I will understand how to make things works in a relationship.

Relationship is hard for some people. If you ever experience that, this will help you on keeping you relationship in good place.

I would appreciate your opinion about this matter, so that we can learn from each other better to live this life abundantly!

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