First, we must asks why men hire prostitute? There are so many reasons, but among them is because they want to, not that they need to. If you legalize a prostitution, it means that you put sex in the primary physiological needs.
That’s doesn’t make sense at a point where you can have sex with your partner. What exactly people need from other people than their partner? Is it because their women can’t make their fantasies alive?
The example of basic primary need is food and water. You can’t live without them, but hiring prostitute is not one of these basic need, however sex is. The legalization of prostitution is became tough debate in religious countries.
“Gang Dolly” is famous among western who enjoy their vacations in Indonesia, until they’ve been put down for good by the government. Actually, in my opinion, whether you legalize this or not, it doesn’t matter, because men will always find the way, once again because it became their primary needs.
There are some reasons that I can think of, but if they are honest with themselves, they don’t need these reasons to hire prostitutes :
- Taste different experiences with other women, especially the HOT ones. What are these experiences?
- Fantasy : they want to live up to their fantasies that can’t be done with their wives, girlfriends or any other women.
- Caring Experience : well-paid prostitute doesn’t complain as much as their wife or girlfriend, and with their GFE touch (girlfriend-experience), prostitute can be more caring than other women, and even they will provide man with the After-Sex bed talk when he can easily talking about secrets to a stranger.
- Experiment : Addiction at higher level makes someone hunger for experiments with a woman. It can lead to a kinky or even nastier situation.
- Opportunities. Going away for business trips or travelling outside the countries, every men’s thought has been tempted to taste local “cuisine”. When there’s opportunity to be alone and without anyone watch, they would go for the temptation.
- Simplicity. Call a number, Waiting for “the service” to come, Having “the service”, Payments, and Goodbye. No strings attached.
- Woman’s Blindness. “Oh no, you don’t know him like a do”, “He is a good guy”, “He is the love of my life”, “I know who he is exactly, his sacrifice for this relationship”, He Will Never Do That. Some women are blinded with man’s character, and some “good” men prey on that, making it easier to cheat on woman and going with prostitutes.
- The Belief that AIDS and other worst disease will never get unto them. How easy men can just ignore the facts that it can happen! It happen, and when the time come, regrets, begging for forgiveness not gonna cut out, rather than just Accept and Move Forward.
These days, social media and internet are side-by-side supports these prostitution, and the arguments always gonna be “We are not responsible for third-party advertisements”. Just look at what happen with backpage.com! They still survive until now. I don’t have super extensive knowledge about Law, but I know about common sense and doing what is right.
The backpage case has been going on for years, and they always hide under Section 230, “No provider or user of an interactive computer service shall be treated as the publisher or speaker of any information provided by another information content provider“.
Prostitution itself is fine at some points, but child-trafficking? It’s sick!. If a porn website put an underage porn content in their website, it’s illegal, but what backpage doing is not. US Government is too soft, why would you not enforce Humanity over Law? You have the authority to close backpage, as you see fit! If your Law can’t bind backpage then you fail as a country, unjust law is not a law at all … Lex iniusta lex non est — St. Augustine. “Humanity has to be the highest standard of a law”. {click to tweet}
The Government should protect their citizen and Family should take actions to protect their kids. Things happen, and it happen with children. Is it not enough to make a move? To straighten things up?
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