Friends or Foes?

In life, there’s always people who doesn’t like you. There are times when we take care of them, the people we proudly call them our staffs, our friends, our colleagues, our bosses. There’s a time when they turns against us. Staffs who make fun of us, they have no idea what if we were not showing them our mercy in working life. Now, when they are not under us anymore, they mock us, they put us as if we are the only one to blame for.

They just don’t know how stupid they are until you show them who they really are, when we don’t act as a shield between them and the top managements. Some of them are practically just idiot. They don’t have “thanks” in their heart for what have we done for them, they practically don’t remember when we at first recruiting them among hundreds of people.

Not so far also with people who we call friends, colleagues. I treat them almost everyday back then, and now they just don’t remember and even try to call me. Only one of them is still contacting me sometimes. He is my best friend, colleague and once staff after all, I don’t think in the future I will find anyone better than him. His character is outstanding, he works with me late until morning, he offers much help, he asks after he bloodily working on his assignment and still can’t solve it, he become a smoker after working with me for a bit (anyway, that was my satisfaction, he follow his boss’s lifestyle), he loves women and loves to drink (once again follow his boss’s lifestyle).

I manage to save my friend’s asses in front of my bosses, when they were in trouble. Those moments I did for people I called friends, are gone in the past. People tend not to remember the past and move forward. It’s good at some level, but when they forget good person who helped them in the past, it’s kind of showing who they are in the future. They might or might not succeed in the future, it has nothing to do with they forgetting us. It’s a reminder for us to choose to hang out with people who purely supports us and not gonna forget about us, people who understand the concept of return the favor. {click to tweet}

I conduct some experiment back then just to know who my friends really are. So I call each of them and asking them to help me financially since I’m in deep misery. They have all their excuses :

  1. Not Answering my call or my messages.
  2. “Sorry, I just bought an apartment, so I don’t have anything left to lend you”
  3. “Who are you? Is this scam?”
  4. “Sorry, I don’t have the money”

Their sorry bullshit saying keep ringing in my ears, so this is who they actually are! This is when my concept on only loves who loves you back arise. Those kind of responses only leave me a question, “Why don’t you just say, how much do you need? I will help if I have!”

They just break the whole relationship with those sorry words. Sorry is never enough! People won’t help you when you are in trouble, because they are selfish. Sooner or later in their life, they will see all people leaving them for good. God damn selfish bastard!

But life never stop when friends don’t help you. They will not become your foes just because of that, but you will not contact them, you will not care for them anymore, you don’t even give a damn when they die or in deep shit.

We have to keep going on living this life, with a concept of success is our great revenge!


I would appreciate your opinion about this matter, so that we can learn from each other better to live this life abundantly!


Gamer Vs Clubber, If It’s as Simple as It Is!!

Recently I play World of Warcraft when a friend of mine barged in to my room and telling me that Its Friday night and wants me to come with him to a club in Jakarta, namely “Illigals”. Well, I said “It’s illegal to ask me to go when I’m in the middle of the game”, and he laughed.

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It’s been 1 year playing this game, not a very fan of it but still its fun to play especially when you know what to do in World of Warcraft. It’s one of the best MMORPG (Massively Multiplayer Online Role-Playing) games which was released by Blizzard Entertainment in 2004.

World Of Worldcraft

The fascinating about World of Warcraft is that it has a very massive maps with additional expansion which makes it a very vast world to explore. It consumes time and dedication to play this kind of game, matching with other players and get to know them is fun also in finishing difficult quests and brag on Titles and Achievements is a climax. Some people said, you do not know MMORPG if you have not played World of Warcraft. {click to tweet}

Another MMORPG game I play also is Wartune, a real-time MMORPG which featuring Sylphs, Eudaemon, and Mounts to defeat your enemies. Still have an account there, but has been vacuum for months.

I try to explain what games are these to my happyfeet clubber’s friend, and he is not even listening. He said,”Sitting here and staring at laptop will not get you anywhere!” I said rightaway “exactly! so please just leave!”

My friend is a flirty guy, that play a “game” in totally different level which he may has already “kill the nightmare bosses” in the game, if you know what i mean.

At the end of his wits, he said “Lets go to Blowfish then!”. Well, it blows my mind that he is not giving up.

One of my friend, back then told me that he is not into a mobile game and can’t push himself to like a game as I do. We play billiards together back then, he loves it. Then he was introduced to a billiard/pool mobile game, since then he always play that specific game. So I think that I don’t have to push myself to explain what game is to a clubber, well, he is a “player” anyway. Sooner or later he’ll try the games and let’s see if he’s still in the clubs every Friday.

But thinking about his invitation, i think i will go clubbing tomorrow night. Maybe I will find one of this WoW’s character there.

Have you ever been dragged out of your comfort chair to go outside and leave your game events forcefully?

I would appreciate your opinion about this matter, so that we can learn from each other better to live this life abundantly!

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