Prostitution Over The Years : REASONS?

Why men hire prostitute? It’s probably the most stupid question if you ask the right men. Men from any status (married? single? widower?) will come to a point that there’s a thought to hire a prostitute.

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When they hire a prostitute? (alone? frigid wife? fantasies? social pressures?). Who would they hire? (professional prostitutes? high class prostitutes? street prostitute?). How they hire a prostitute? (through friends? social media? agencies? streets?).

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Some reasons men hire prostitute are even simpler than what we assume. These reasons are a denial of common logic, “why i do that, because of this. If this not happening, then I will not do that“. You have a choice of not doing that EVEN if you are having these!. Here they are :

  1. Taste different experiences with other women, especially the HOT ones. What are these experiences?
    • Fantasy : they want to live up their fantasies that can’t be done with their wives, girlfriends or any other women.
    • Caring Experience : well-paid prostitute don’t complain as much as their wives or girlfriends, and with their GFE (girl-friend-experience), prostitute can be more caring than other women, and even they will provide man with the After-Sex bed talk when he can easily talking about secrets to a stranger.
    • Experiment : Addiction at higher level makes someone hunger for experiments with a woman. It can lead to a kinky or even nastier situation that is unthinkable. Maybe, it will lead to, even a beating or … killing.
  2. Opportunities. Going away for business trips or travelling outside the countries, every men’s thought has been tempted to taste local “cuisine”. When there’s opportunity to be alone and without anyone watch, they would go for the temptation.
  3. Simplicity. Call a number, Waiting for “the service” to come, Having “the service”, Payments, and Goodbye. No strings attached.
  4. Woman’s Blindness. “Oh no, you don’t know him like a do”, “He is a good guy”, “He is the love of my life”, “I know who he is exactly, his sacrifice for this relationship”, He Will Never Do That. Some women are blinded with man’s character, and some “good” men prey on that, making it easier to cheat on woman and going with prostitutes.
  5. The Belief that AIDS and other worst disease will never get unto them. How easy men can just ignore the facts that it can happen! It happen, and when the time come, regrets, begging for forgiveness not gonna cut out, rather than just Accept and Move Forward.

These days, social media and internet are side-by-side supports these prostitution, and the arguments always gonna be “We are not responsible for third-party advertisements”. Just look at what happen with! They still survive until now. I don’t have super extensive knowledge about Law, but I know about common sense and doing what is right.

The backpage case has been in years, and they always hide under Section 230, “No provider or user of an interactive computer service shall be treated as the publisher or speaker of any information provided by another information content provider“.

Prostitution itself is big, but child-trafficking? It’s unthinkable. So, if a porn website put an underage porn content in their website, it’s illegal, but what backpage doing is not. I have to be a rebellion on this, Law was made to be broken. Lex iniusta lex non est — St. Augustine. In the end, I think law is above humanity. {click to tweet}

Sometimes, Governments are afraid to make a move to organizations. They have too many reasons why not doing the right things in the first place. They have power, yet they are powerless or choose to be powerless, hiding under their silence and pretending things doesn’t happen.

Things happen, and it happen with children. Is it not enough to make a move? To straighten things up?

But more look at it, parents also have significant part on the growing of prostitution. Divorce, Broken Family, Fail Marriage has become the undeniable factor for increasing in prostitution among child. So, my message to all parents, GET YOUR MARRIAGE IN PLACE! Listen to Amy Waterman if you need so!

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I would appreciate your opinion about this matter, so that we can learn from each other better to live this life abundantly!

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Costs to Get Recognized Out There?!

How did people recognized you as a “someone”? Yes, you introduce yourself to the society. Even you can get a company specialized in Personal Branding, Corporate Branding, Product Branding. The point is, make contact with everyone out there, out of your comfort zone.

Being a back stage people for long is making someone tremendously uneasy to get on a stage. It’s like being nude in front of people for the first time. It makes you nervous, pumps up your adrenaline, and might makes you lose your consciousness for a while. But the fact is, back office people don’t like to be up front, yet want to be famous. {click to tweet}

YouTube, Facebook, and Twitter is in the business of making people famous or just getting recognized by people around the world.

A Viral Video on YouTube cost you from 1 million views to unlimited views. It does make you being recognized, and even subscribe to your channel. Promoting yourself in YouTube cost you around $8 to get 670 Ads Impression and 1,400 views. Let’s say we want to get 30 million views to be able to get $40,000, it cost you $172,000.

Is it worth to promote yourself through YouTube? Maybe.

A thousands likes on Facebook will cost you higher of the YouTube promotion. For $20 you can reach 57,000 people (including organic and paid reach), and max reach that Facebook can estimate is >$60,000 will be able to reach 8,999,999 people. And then, it means, to reach 30 million people to get 1 view only is gonna cost you $200,000.

Is it worth to promote yourself through Facebook? Maybe. Or even GETTING PAID to use Facebook?

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Rain of Impression and Clicks on Twitter even cost you higher than the previous promotions. For $26, you will be able to get 8,400 impression and 24 click engagements, and the max promotion per 1 ads in Twitter is $2,620 to get 324,000 impression and 933 engagements. So, to get 30 million people actually saw your promotion (impression), its gonna cost you roughly around $242,170.

Is it worth to promote yourself through Twitter? Maybe.

I guess, we will not be able to use any promotions that cheaper enough to get maximum results. Not considering that all the views may not subscribe to your channel, all the likes will not sign up to your page, and all the impressions not all actually click the link.

But, It doesn’t have to be the way. Using the media to promote yourself is just effective enough as you introduce yourself to the society. Still, you will be recognized by people out there.

I think that’s the point of social media promotions.

I would appreciate your opinion about this matter, so that we can learn from each other better to live this life abundantly!

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