In life, there’s always people who doesn’t like you. There are times when we take care of them, the people we proudly call them our associates, our colleagues, our bosses. There’s a time when they turn against us.
Underlings who make fun of us behind our back, they just don’t know how lucky they are that we don’t mess with them and when we are not their bosses anymore, they mock us and blame us.
They don’t know how stupid they are until we put them in their place. They don’t remember the first time we hire them or associates who we get hired together, you treat them good and they stab you in the back.
Now, when you try to call them to ask for help, they won’t even answer your calls, they keep silent, they think you are not matter. They become everybody who never know you.
Among those you call friends, there might be one or two who still “idolize” you, and they offers help often. Once in a while we might manage to save our friend’s asses in front of the bosses and other people. The point is what you did good to them when you are working with them back days, now it’s nothing.
People do not want to remember the past and just move forward. They forgot where they are coming from. They might or might not succeed in the future but it has nothing to do with it. It’s a reminder for us to choose who we want to hang out with.
We should make a friend with someone who support us and not gonna forget about us, someone who understand the concept of return the favor, even though we do not actually expect him to help us with our difficulties, just in case.
Have you ever conduct some experiments to see how your friends react when you are in troubles and need a lot of money to pay loan to a shark? Their responses might be difference as below, but the point is that they need excuses not to help us.
- Not Answering my call or my messages.
- “Sorry, I just bought an apartment, so I don’t have anything left to lend you”
- “Who are you? Is this scam?”
- “Sorry, I don’t have the money”
Their sorry seems to be the hardest thing to hear for us and it keeps us thinking “Is this is who they really are?” Those responses are bad, why can they say something like, “What happen to you? How much money do you need? I only have a few, is it okay if I give you this?”
They don’t say it, and the relationship is broken with those words. You will stay away from them for the rest of your life. Hear this, even though your friends won’t help you, there are out there, somebody, people who will help you, you just don’t stop to get your life back in business.
Life never stop, my friends! They will not become your foes, but you might not want to contact them, you won’t care for them anymore, you don’t even give a damn when they are succeed or not, but “Your success is your great revenge to them!”.
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